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Toddler Clinic

Toddlers are terrific but can also be tricky. At Karitane we provide evidence-based support for challenging toddler behaviour. We support families with children aged 12 months to 3 years 11 months who are displaying behavioural issues and difficulties with emotional regulation. This free service is available in-person and virtually. 

Helping You Understand And Respond To Your Toddler’s Behaviour – With Confidence And Care

Toddlerhood is a time of big emotions, rapid development and growing independence. For many families, this stage also brings frequent tantrums, aggression, defiance or behaviours that feel overwhelming and hard to manage.

If your toddler’s behaviour is leaving you worried, exhausted or unsure what to do next, you’re not alone. Karitane’s Toddler Clinic provides professional, evidence-based support to help families understand what’s driving their child’s behaviour and build practical, responsive strategies that strengthen the parent–child relationship.

When Is Toddler Behaviour Part Of Normal Development – And When Is Support Helpful?

Our aim is to increase positive behaviours and provide strategies to help strengthen the parent-child relationship. We work closely with families to support their individual needs and provide Parent-Child Interaction Therapy. 

How the Toddler Clinic can help

Karitane’s Toddler Clinic is designed to support families with toddlers experiencing ongoing behavioural and emotional challenges. Our experienced clinicians work closely with parents to understand each child’s unique needs and provide tailored guidance that fits your family.

  • Through the clinic, families can expect:
  • A thorough assessment of your child’s behaviour and development
  • Support to understand the reasons behind challenging behaviour
  • Coaching to strengthen the parent–child relationship
  • Practical strategies to respond to tantrums, aggression and defiance
  • Guidance that aligns with responsive, evidence-based parenting approaches
  • Our focus is not on “fixing” children, but on supporting parents and toddlers to feel safer, calmer and more connected.

Our approach: Parent Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT)

The Toddler Behaviour Clinic uses Parent Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT) – an evidence-based, play-based therapy shown to reduce challenging behaviour and improve relationships between parents and children.

PCIT focuses on:

  • Strengthening the emotional connection between parent and child
  • Helping parents respond calmly and consistently to behaviour
  • Supporting toddlers to develop emotional regulation and cooperation
  • Reducing the intensity and frequency of tantrums and aggression

Parents are coached in real time, learning skills they can confidently use at home, in public and in everyday routines. A specialist therapist will guide you in real-time while you play with your child. This helps strengthen your bond and builds your confidence in managing challenging behaviours. PCIT is approximately 20 weekly sessions of 1 hour and sessions can be in-person or delivered virtually.

Who the Toddler Clinic supports

The clinic supports families with toddlers who may be experiencing:

  • Frequent or intense tantrums
  • Physical and verbal aggression (hitting, biting, kicking)
  • Defiance or difficulty following instructions
  • Destructive behaviours
  • Emotional regulation challenges
  • Separation anxiety or behavioural distress
  • Over-activity
  • Hyperactivity
  • Sibling rivalry
  • Support is tailored to each family’s situation and cultural context, with a strong emphasis on compassion, understanding and practical outcomes.

What to expect from your sessions

Every family’s journey is different, but most parents tell us they leave feeling:

  • More connected to their child
  • More confident in responding to their child’s behaviour
  • Better equipped with practical, realistic strategies
  • Supported in a calm, judgement-free environment

Our clinicians take the time to listen, understand and work alongside you at a pace that feels manageable.

Accessing the Toddler Clinic

The Toddler Clinic is free service for Medicare card holders. Appointments are available in-centre and, where appropriate, via virtual services to support families across NSW. If you’re unsure whether this service is right for your family, we encourage you to get in touch to discuss your concerns. Your first appointment will take about two hours where you will share your concerns. Given the length and sensitive nature of the interview, children are unable to attend your first appointment. Partners are welcome to join, as it’s common for parents to have different views on behaviours. The program usually includes 15 weekly one-hour sessions. To get the best results, it’s important to attend regularly and practice the skills at home with your child.

You don’t have to manage this alone

Parenting a toddler with challenging behaviour can feel isolating, but help is available. With the right support, families often see meaningful improvements – not just in behaviour, but in confidence, connection and everyday life.

Talk to Karitane today to find out how the Toddler Clinic can support you and your child.

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How to start the process

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Cost

This is a free service for Medicare card holders

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What parents say

"Thank you for your support over the past few months, we are forever grateful, and so lucky. Everything you have taught us has changed our lives.” Sarah, Marrickville. You have empowered us with competence and confidence. This has made such a significant difference in our lives. Sophia has truly blossomed into the most loving and beautiful girl. Thank you!"

Aisha – Parramatta, NSW

Frequently Asked Questions

Tantrums are a normal part of toddler development, especially as children learn to manage big emotions. However, it may be helpful to seek support if tantrums are very frequent, intense, last a long time, involve aggression, or are affecting your child’s wellbeing, sleep, childcare or family relationships. Trust your instincts – if your toddler’s behaviour feels overwhelming or isn’t improving over time, support can make a real difference.

 

Every toddler develops differently, but behaviour may be considered concerning if it is persistent, extreme for your child’s age, or impacts daily life. This can include ongoing aggression, difficulty calming down, frequent emotional distress, or behaviours that don’t ease with consistent support. The Toddler Behaviour Clinic helps families understand what’s driving behaviour and what support may be helpful.

 

The clinic supports parents to understand why tantrums happen and how to respond in calm, consistent and supportive ways. Using the evidence-based approach ofParent Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT), parents learn practical strategies to reduce the intensity and frequency of tantrums while strengthening the parent–child relationship.

At Karitane, we focus on responsive and relationship-based approaches rather than punishment. We teach how to set limits in a safe and connected approach. Discipline is viewed as teaching and guiding toddlers, helping them feel safe, understood and supported as they learn emotional regulation. Parents are coached in strategies that encourage cooperation while maintaining connection.

The clinic supports families with toddlers experiencing ongoing behavioural or emotional challenges, including frequent tantrums, physical and verbal aggression, non-compliance, over-activity, destructive behaviour, hyperactivity, sibling rivalry, anxiety, withdrawal and emotional regulation.Support is tailored to each child and family’s needs.

Yes. With an eligible GP Mental Health Care Plan or specialist referral, the Toddler Behaviour Clinic is Medicare bulk billed, meaning there is no out-of-pocket cost for families.

A GP Mental Health Care Plan or specialist referral is required for Medicare-funded appointments. If you’re unsure how to get started, Karitane can guide you through the process.

Absolutely. Supporting parents is a core part of the clinic. Many parents seek help not because they’re doing anything wrong, but because they’re feeling exhausted, worried or unsure how to respond. The clinic provides a safe, non-judgemental space to build confidence and skills.

Toddler Clinic Locations

Our Fairfield Integrated Child and Family Integrated Hub supports families expecting a child and/or have child/ren from birth to 5 years of age.
Our Early Parenting Centre in Campbelltown Hospital supports families with children from birth to 5 years of age.