Overview
Starting childcare is a big step for both toddlers and their families. It’s a new experience that can bring a mix of excitement and emotions. Childcare is a great place for your child to learn important skills like socialising, understanding emotions, talking, thinking, and solving problems. However, adjusting to a new environment can be challenging for little ones.
Childcare can be in a large building with many children or in a smaller, family daycare setting where caregivers look after children in their homes. Both types offer great opportunities for your child, but it’s normal for toddlers to need time to adjust to the new routine.
To help make this transition easier for your child, it’s important to prepare ahead of time. Talk to your child about what daycare will be like, keep a consistent routine, and work closely with childcare staff. By staying positive and helping your child feel comfortable, you can make starting childcare a positive experience for both you and your toddler.
Benefits of Childcare for Toddlers
Childcare offers many experiences that can help your toddler in different ways:
- Social skills: Childcare helps children make friends and teaches them how to share, talk, and get along with others. This builds social skills and boosts their confidence.
- Routine and structure: Going to childcare helps toddlers learn routines and schedules. This makes them feel more secure and helps them follow routines outside of childcare, too.
- Language, thinking, and problem-solving: In childcare, toddlers play and engage in many different activities. This helps them learn new words, think more clearly, and solve problems more easily.
- Independence and confidence: childcare encourages toddlers to do things on their own and make their own choices. This helps them feel confident and prepares them for preschool and school.
Helping Your Toddler Adjust to Childcare: Tips for Parents
Stay calm and positive: Toddlers often pick up on their parents' emotions. Show confidence and gentle enthusiasm about daycare. This can help your toddler feel more confident too!
Communicate with caregivers: Talk with the caregivers about your child’s needs, likes, and any concerns. This helps them support your child and make them feel at ease. Ask how you can get updates about your child’s day and learn about special activities so your child can join in and feel included.
Be patient: Some toddlers adjust quickly, while others may take more time. Stick to routines and take a moment to observe your child interacting with others when you pick them up. This can show how they’re settling into the new play space. If your toddler is struggling, talk to the caregivers and ask for advice—they may have helpful suggestions. Remember, most children eventually learn to relax and enjoy daycare.
Create a special goodbye routine: Having a consistent goodbye routine helps toddlers feel secure and cope better with separation. Here’s what to include:
- Always say goodbye: Sneaking away without telling them can break their trust.
- Make it special: Include a hug, a funny saying, or a positive message like, "Have a fun day, and I’ll see you after lunch!"
- Reassure them: Let them know where you’re going and when you’ll be back.
- Be confident as you leave: Even if your child is upset, staying calm and confident reassures them.
If your child is upset, ask the caregiver to help comfort them as you leave. This teamwork helps your child feel supported and safe in their new environment.
